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Bring on the Romance

With Valentine’s Day only a few short days away, I thought I would bring you some simple tips and tricks to create a more romantic space. Typically, you want to keep the romance in the most personal rooms of the house (the bedroom, master bathroom, an office, etc.) but, you can also apply these tips and tricks in any space to create a subtle romance that will leave guests feeling welcome and loved.


This is, quite possibly, the smallest change you can make for the most dramatic results in several different areas. Creating a specific mood can be solely determined by lighting. Have you ever been to a place that you’ve almost hated being in, and couldn’t figure out why? Most likely, it was the lighting. Have you ever been dining in a restaurant and felt as though the atmosphere was just right? Again, most likely lighting.

Much of our body chemistry is centered around the day/night cycle, creating what is called a circadian rhythm. When our bodies are not exposed to a healthy amount of natural light, or when they are exposed to a certain amount light giving off a limited spectrum, such as fluorescent lights, it can mess with your circadian rhythm, your hormones, and even your anxiety levels. Fluorescent lights are not only bad for your health, but they can also KILL the mood. Most people associate fluorescent lighting with places like, doctors offices, large warehouse style shopping centers, and office spaces. Not very romantic. So, all of that being said, if you have fluorescent lighting in a space in your home…GET RID OF IT! That change will make a huge difference in the feel of the entire space. Without moving a single piece of furniture or adding any other type of finishes, you can create romance in the style of lighting.

Some other ideas might include,

  • Getting rid of single overhead  lighting

Removing impersonal ceiling fan lighting and adding personalized lamps or fixtures to the bedside can create that homey, romantic feel.

  • Use linear lighting and put them on a dimmer

Using recessed lighting or track lighting offers the intimacy of string lights (or strand lights) with a little added sophistication. Putting those lights on a dimmer can also really increase the functionality of the lights to the space.

  • Candles

Candlelight can make ANY space more romantic, even a hallway. This is an inexpensive way to quickly romanticize any room of the house. Tip: Use several different candles in all sizes in the same display to add dimension and levels.


While you might have gotten lost in my lighting tirade and forgotten what this post was about, I’m getting back to the simple ways to add romance to a room. Adding texture is going to make a huge impact on a space, whether you’re trying to add drama, romance, or fun! There are so many simple ways to add textures and it can be an instant change. Textures can be added in,

  • Furniture
  • Bed Linens
  • Decor
  • Window Treatments

or even in lighting and fixtures.

Simple, subtle textures that work with the rooms color palette and ambiance will create romance with ease. Adding layers and creating dimension can create texture as well, without adding clutter or too much “stuff” to a space.


This is probably one of my favorite ways to evoke feeling in a space, but can get quite costly if you let it. Obviously, it is easy to bring the outside in by adding plants to any space. This creates a natural romance by bringing us back to our primal connection with the outdoors. Bringing the inside out, or adding more natural light with larger doors and windows can be a bit more difficult. Sometimes though, the big changes are worth every penny when you see how it can transform a space.

Bringing nature into a space can make it feel more spacious and definitely create personality.  It can be a big statement, or a more indirect relationship, but either way, creates a feeling of connectedness and being whole.


Clearly one of the easier ways to create romance in a space is by personalizing it! Add memorabilia that represents significant times or events in your life. Have important documents or letters framed, hang handmade items, add monogramming to linens and other decor, add a photo wall. The possibilities are endless!

This is where you can really get creative. This simple step can transform a space by making it your own with just a few small details.
Just be sure the details all have meaning. It is easy to get caught up in “cute” decor and lose sight of the personal touch the items were originally intended to have. Adding clutter with too much and not having a good balance of positive and negative space will move the feel from peaceful and romantic, to busy and hectic.


Another simple way to create romance in a space is by keeping your color palette simple and sweet. This does not, by any means, limit you to only using neutrals or dull, dreary colors. As they say, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” and I would dare to say the same about romance. Everyone’s vision of romance is different, so creating a space that is uniquely yours is important.

When choosing a wall color, keep in mind any decor you already own or are planning on putting in the space. Keeping a consistent color palette throughout will easily create a romantic, peaceful atmosphere.
Consistency in a color palette can bring a space to life and help declutter by determining what should and should not be on display.
These are just a few of the ways we have successfully been able to create a more personal, romantic ambiance in a space. For more ideas and pictures, check out the link below!